Bachelorette partying


This weekend Jose and I attended a bachelor and bachelorette party respectively. He and a group of about 10 guy friends headed to El Puerto de Santa Maria in Cadiz to spend the night partaking in some low level debauchery. Most of the guys that went are attached (either married or dating) and knowing them I am sure they kept it safe and clean. The girls met up for an Italian feast and a few drinks in Sevilla. Even with the rain we had a great time.

One of the things that people tend to do here when celebrating a bachelor/bachelorette party is to dress up the future bride and groom. Often times it is something embarrassing that they have to wear for the whole night. Sometimes everyone in attendance dresses up in a themed costume (once we saw a party dressed as cows). Whatever the case may be, it definitely draws attention to and defines the group as out to have a good time. The bachelor this weekend wore a Where's Waldo costume that Jose and I picked up in Michigan during a after-Halloween sale. This friend tends to arrive late to just about everything and people are always asking where he is. For the bachelorette a friend created a big, bright pink clock for her to wear around her neck (think Flava Flav) because like any good match, she also tends to be late. They also decked her out in a long, blonde, braided wig which caused quite a few children to ask if she was Rapunzel.



Though we joked about it there was no “entertainment” for us and I am assured by Jose that the guys didn’t have any either. I think it is funny though that here in Spain a woman exotic dancer is know as “una estripper” and a man would be “un boy.” Apparently they had to borrow these words from English. I am not sure what that says about cross-cultural linguistic importations…

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